Mentoring relationships have existed for many years and in various forms.  Greek mythology sites examples of the ancient Greek goddess Athena who came to earth disguised as a man to coach a boy, and Homer and the Odyssey.  One of the largest and most successful examples of mentoring in our time is Big Brothers Big Sisters of America. 

 

In the United States today Mentoring is increasing in popularity due to it’s effectiveness in impacting the lives of children.  

°      Department of Education and Department of Health and Social Services have granted $100 million dollars to match more children with adult mentors 

°      In 2004 mentoring funding levels were the highest in history in the United States. 

°      In 2002, the government declared January as National Mentoring Month. 

°      In Washington State we have defined mentoring as a structured and trusting relationship that brings young people together with caring individuals who offer guidance, support, and encouragement aimed at developing the competence and character of the mentees.

 

What children need are for adults to act (words and promises are not enough), consistency (to depend on someone), honesty (excuses destroy the truth), and time (one on one time with a caring adult).  A research study (Public and Private Ventures, 1995) found that children in mentoring relationships had a significantly reduced likelihood of initiating drug use, engaging in physical violence, and exhibiting negative behaviors.  Furthermore, they had improved attitudes toward school, family and peer relationships, school performance, and school attendance.